4 Promises Men Make (But Rarely Keep) Relationships are rarely found to be easy…

4 Promises Men Make (But Rarely Keep) Relationships are rarely found to be easy and simple. There will be quite a number of rough patches in the ocean of love that you and your partner have to sail through if you want to make it. Every time you enter a relationship you might be under the notion that hes the one for you. You step into it optimistically thinking hes perfect. But hey nobody is perfect. Neither are you. Okay he might have made a few vows to you. Promises he said hell keep forever. But then they say promises are like babies. Easier to make and hard to deliver on. No dont laugh its the truth. And we know if its a promise coming from the man of your life it means all the more to you. Youre in two minds whether or not to take it on its face value. Were not saying that he doesnt intend to keep all the promises he made to you. If he failed to keep his promises to you he could have genuine reasons behind it. He is human after all. Were sure even God hasnt kept up with all of his promises. So what do you do? Should you still trust him? Well leave you to answer it. But were saying dont believe all of his promises and weave your hopes around them. The future is unpredictable. And as much as your man might love you there are a few promises that he might have made to you in all earnestness but its that he wont be able to keep them. What are these promises? Read on to find out more. 1. When He Says He Wont Check Other Girls Out Shutterstock Even if he promises you this you shouldnt believe him. Because its highly impossible you know? Imagine a Victoria Secrets model walks past you would you not turn and check her out yourself? You definitely would right? So how on earth can you expect your man to resist that? Its completely natural like a reflex. Some people are nice to look at and according to science there is a biological logic behind the act of checking them out that even if you do the said checking out for the tiniest fraction of a second (1). This is the activity of a subconscious mind. And yes theres a humungous difference between just looking at someone and ogling at someone. Figure out why this is causing distress to you. Is it because your man is not able to control his attraction towards others or is it because you feel uncomfortable about it. Resolving this query will eliminate the need of a promise like this which just doesnt make any sense in the first place. 2. When He Says He Will Never Be Jealous Shutterstock Jealousy is considered to be a valid emotion. And if you are expecting your love to stop feeling it youre expecting him to not acknowledge an actual natural emotion. A healthy competition between the two of you is necessary. It will keep you both on your toes. See jealousy is apparently an emotion which is present in human so that they can anticipate and prevent a loss. Jealousy is absolutely okay between the two of you until youve a handle on it. 3. When He Promises He Will Never Think Of His Ex Shutterstock You know this dont you? That such promises are easier said than kept! You need to understand that taking the step to enter into another relationship is actually a step that youre taking to get over your ex (2). Your ex might have sent you a polite message to ask if youre doing okay. You will naturally feel inclined to reply to him wont you? Its the same case with your boyfriend too. If he really matters to you you should be helping him heal and not asking him for promises that will destabilize his emotional state of mind. But yes you need to definitely draw boundaries. It doesnt take more than a minute for flames of desire to surface between your man and your ex and vice versa. So make sure youre kept in the loop if he is still in touch with his ex. 4. When He Promises He Will Change After A Huge Fight Shutterstock After a especially bad argument men will make promises lots of promises (rolls eyes). They are going to say that they are going to turn a new leaf and they wont behave in the way that actually led to the fight in the first place. The truth however is contrary and you need to prepare yourself for these promises to fade away just like a flower that has lived its life. Were not saying that this is the case with every man and that your man will never change. What were trying to say is that change is a process. Therefore its going to take time and you need to be patient. Final Thoughts Of course promises in a relationship should never be broken. It signals disrespect for the one youve made your promise to. And there are certain promises in relationships that must never be broken like the one that has to do with fidelity. Promises that youll be there for each other no matter what and other such promises that are like unsaid expectations. So has your man ever broken a promise? Let us know in the comments below. The post 4 Promises Men Make (But Rarely Keep) appeared first on STYLECRAZE.

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